So I am literally in tears..at least I was in tears about 10 minutes ago. If anyone caught Oprah this morning then you will know what I am talking about. The show was about children who miraculously beat the odds..Most were born with severe physical challenges. Most of them overcame these odds and are living and thriving. The last story was a story about Eliot Mooney . He was diagnosed with Trisomy 18 when his mom was six months pregnant. He was not supposed to survive. His father started writing letters to him when before he was born.. actually 2 months before he was born.
"Dear Eliot: Right now you are two months from being born," Matt wrote in one letter. "Doctors tell us that you won't likely make it to birth. Your mom and I are praying against that. We're praying for healing. We are praying for nothing less than a miracle. You're our first child, and the day of your birth couldn't come sooner."
Eliot passed away 99 days after birth. He was not supposed to make it past a few days. His young, amazing parents fought the hard fight and won for a short period of time. They look at his short life as a blessing..a gift. He beat the odds.
After watching this amazing amazing video I was so moved..beyond words. My heart felt like it was being pulled from my chest. I thought about how absolutely incredibly lucky I am. I have four thriving healthy boys. When I look at what could have possibly gone wrong I think of how lucky I am. I am fortunate to have children that are growing, walking and talking. When I look st what can be taken from me in just the blink of an eye I thank God for all that I have and how absolutely precious it all is. There are no guarantees in this life. I try to remind myself of that everyday. Especially when I am feeling like I am the victim.
So please please please cherish what you have. Hug your children, your parents, your grandparents,your spouses, your significant others, your animals, your friends. Cherish them and cherish what they bring to your life. We never know how long we will have the extreme pleasure of their company.